最近在寻思倒底要不要去外好, 担心一个人在外面怕融不进社区。自小我的存在感不是很大, 身边的朋友也不多, 止于浅交。我是那种不善于交际的人, 谈话交心的什么实在是太累了, 可是又害怕孤单一个人的感觉, 去到外国感觉自己更不能去认识什么人了, 感觉去了反而会变得非常煎熬。

  • Author: ilovechonglang
  • Created: 2021-11-24 23:32:44 UTC
  • Score: 6
  • ID: hlysgh0
  • Ups=6 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlysgh0/

你没爱好吗。

  • Author: This-Ad4162
  • Created: 2021-11-24 23:44:56 UTC
  • Score: 18
  • ID: hlyu02x
  • Ups=18 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlyu02x/

是的, 我的确没有什么兴趣, 人生也没什么目标。以前还会打打游戏看看番什么的, 最后发现一切都是为了迎合朋友才去做的, 它们对我来说只不过是一种自我麻醉工具而已, 玩的时候时间的确过得很快, 9年就这样过去了。 事后干完了只有一种虚无的感觉, 自己一无所获。

  • Author: This-Ad4162
  • Created: 2021-11-24 23:51:13 UTC
  • Score: 7
  • ID: hlyuus6
  • Ups=7 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlyuus6/

更不要说外出玩什么的, 瓦房店一成不变的城市规格更令我反对外出, 反正出去都是做些千篇一律的事情还不如留在家里睡大觉好。

  • Author: peroxideal
  • Created: 2021-11-24 23:38:26 UTC
  • Score: 2
  • ID: hlyt4b0
  • Ups=2 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlyt4b0/

找个织女试试

  • Author: This-Ad4162
  • Created: 2021-11-24 23:45:39 UTC
  • Score: 15
  • ID: hlyu3oo
  • Ups=15 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlyu3oo/

织女的逼很臭。

  • Author: peroxideal
  • Created: 2021-11-25 11:23:09 UTC
  • Score: 1
  • ID: hm0uzmr
  • Ups=1 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hm0uzmr/

自己约的炮含着泪也要打完

  • Author: CoffeeAddiction_4825
  • Created: 2021-12-14 23:53:11 UTC
  • Score: 0
  • ID: hoktqd0
  • Ups=0 | Archived=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hoktqd0/

看来你🐎批是很臭了

  • Author: ArthurHaynesStephen
  • Created: 2021-11-24 23:53:32 UTC
  • Score: 4
  • ID: hlyv66u
  • Ups=4 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlyv66u/

实际上交了心也没什么意思

还是归隐山林吧

  • Author: This-Ad4162
  • Created: 2021-11-24 23:56:48 UTC
  • Score: 1
  • ID: hlyvm9t
  • Ups=1 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlyvm9t/

可能这里能做的事情太少了, 出去外国可会好些

  • Author: ArthurHaynesStephen
  • Created: 2021-11-25 00:30:37 UTC
  • Score: 2
  • ID: hlz05k6
  • Ups=2 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlz05k6/

我说的美国

  • Author: [deleted]
  • Created: 2021-11-25 00:36:32 UTC
  • Score: 1
  • ID: hlz0xzb
  • Ups=1 | FlairColor=dark | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlz0xzb/

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  • Author: This-Ad4162
  • Created: 2021-11-25 00:37:46 UTC
  • Score: 1
  • ID: hlz13wo
  • Ups=1 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlz13wo/

感觉还挺不错的, 真希望有生之年能住在那种地方, 支那鸽子笼差不多得了

  • Author: ArthurHaynesStephen
  • Created: 2021-11-25 00:51:52 UTC
  • Score: 7
  • ID: hlz2zym
  • Ups=7 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlz2zym/

白人虚伪做作，华人阴险狡诈，黑人暴力敏感

美国城市生活大抵如此，社交没什么意思

还是买块地，建个农场，造个庄园，

建个大house，修个小机场

养养动物，种种地，开个民宿

这就是我计划的fire退休生活

  • Author: This-Ad4162
  • Created: 2021-11-25 01:01:04 UTC
  • Score: 5
  • ID: hlz47mm
  • Ups=5 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlz47mm/

我认为美国是一个成就梦想的好地方。陌生人, 愿你的梦想能够成真

  • Author: ArthurHaynesStephen
  • Created: 2021-11-25 01:07:38 UTC
  • Score: 3
  • ID: hlz531p
  • Ups=3 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlz531p/

不至于像梦想这么遥远，很多华人都在开农场。

农业没什么门槛和技术含量。

不过还是谢谢你的祝福。

  • Author: [deleted]
  • Created: 2021-11-25 07:04:08 UTC
  • Score: 0
  • ID: hm0ax66
  • Ups=0 | FlairColor=dark | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hm0ax66/

太真实了。。真的是这样 老白大部分特别虚伪

  • Author: [deleted]
  • Created: 2021-11-27 03:40:01 UTC
  • Score: 1
  • ID: hm8fkrb
  • Ups=1 | FlairColor=dark | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hm8fkrb/

哈哈，你老名字都改了还这样啊，有点惨

  • Author: North-Marionberry-14
  • Created: 2021-11-25 00:33:31 UTC
  • Score: 4
  • ID: hlz0jh4
  • Ups=4 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlz0jh4/

你在中国都这样了，还不如换个环境去美国，没有支那特色人际关系，你会活的很舒服的。

  • Author: This-Ad4162
  • Created: 2021-11-25 00:39:59 UTC
  • Score: 1
  • ID: hlz1ef7
  • Ups=1 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlz1ef7/

语言不通怎么办啊, 别人会喜欢跟没什么兴趣的我打交道吗

  • Author: North-Marionberry-14
  • Created: 2021-11-25 00:47:03 UTC
  • Score: 2
  • ID: hlz2cnt
  • Ups=2 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlz2cnt/

就是要先会英语阿，就打交道这个问题上欧美难度比支那第就是了

  • Author: This-Ad4162
  • Created: 2021-11-25 00:48:34 UTC
  • Score: 1
  • ID: hlz2jzo
  • Ups=1 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlz2jzo/

的确是的

  • Author: North-Marionberry-14
  • Created: 2021-11-25 00:57:14 UTC
  • Score: 1
  • ID: hlz3plk
  • Ups=1 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlz3plk/

不管怎么说，还是祝你好运吧

  • Author: This-Ad4162
  • Created: 2021-11-25 01:02:25 UTC
  • Score: 1
  • ID: hlz4e13
  • Ups=1 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlz4e13/

谢谢

  • Author: Wangdama7
  • Created: 2021-11-25 00:49:16 UTC
  • Score: 11
  • ID: hlz2n8s
  • Ups=11 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlz2n8s/

学个乐器

  • Author: This-Ad4162
  • Created: 2021-11-25 00:58:36 UTC
  • Score: 1
  • ID: hlz3w4c
  • Ups=1 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlz3w4c/

学乐器有什么好玩的吗? 小时候父母不容许所以没特别去了解。

  • Author: Wangdama7
  • Created: 2021-11-25 01:00:16 UTC
  • Score: 9
  • ID: hlz43xb
  • Ups=9 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlz43xb/

吉他，钢琴都好玩 这种乐器可以弹奏一首曲子 能让人有成就感

  • Author: deepintheglass
  • Created: 2021-11-25 02:11:51 UTC
  • Score: 32
  • ID: hlzdq80
  • Ups=32 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlzdq80/

我觉得孤独也是人的必要素养之一，毕竟人是个体不是群体。跟着自己的心走吧

  • Author: [deleted]
  • Created: 2021-11-25 02:18:40 UTC
  • Score: 32
  • ID: hlzemwz
  • Ups=32 | FlairColor=dark | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hlzemwz/

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  • Author: [deleted]
  • Created: 2021-11-25 10:16:11 UTC
  • Score: 6
  • ID: hm0q4lz
  • Ups=6 | FlairColor=dark | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hm0q4lz/

你说的很对 在国内社交不行的基本出国也。。

  • Author: [deleted]
  • Created: 2021-11-29 09:50:27 UTC
  • Score: 2
  • ID: hmijkeq
  • Ups=2 | FlairColor=dark | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hmijkeq/

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  • Author: [deleted]
  • Created: 2021-11-25 07:05:20 UTC
  • Score: 2
  • ID: hm0b10s
  • Ups=2 | FlairColor=dark | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hm0b10s/

唉看你个人造化了 如果你在支都很难和人沟通交流那来国外更不可能了，不是天堂

  • Author: PriorAny
  • Created: 2021-11-25 07:18:41 UTC
  • Score: 1
  • ID: hm0c86r
  • Ups=1 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hm0c86r/

Depends on the person, I know I don’t.

  • Author: [deleted]
  • Created: 2021-11-25 09:17:17 UTC
  • Score: 1
  • ID: hm0lsah
  • Ups=1 | FlairColor=dark | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hm0lsah/

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  • Author: posy_49
  • Created: 2021-12-07 03:05:06 UTC
  • Score: 3
  • ID: hnjozlo
  • Ups=3 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hnjozlo/

在哪都是孤独，想要突破只能自己走出去。孤独不是一个润不润的影响因素。

  • Author: CoffeeAddiction_4825
  • Created: 2021-12-14 23:54:31 UTC
  • Score: 1
  • ID: hoktwu8
  • Ups=1 | Archived=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/hoktwu8/

你这种见不得人的货色没人理不是很正常嘛，没钱没颜值性格又烂谁愿意和你社交啊，活该哦。大概也只能活在二磁螈世界里了哈哈

  • Author: flyingbiscuit76
  • Created: 2021-12-15 09:29:48 UTC
  • Score: 1
  • ID: homjoi9
  • Ups=1 | Archived=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/r1ia8j/人在国外会感到孤单吗/homjoi9/

分性格。我感觉一个人呆着实在实在是太爽了。身边也有小伙伴但是懒得出来懒得动弹。喜欢各种出来玩的得想好....