润不掉就只能重开了捏

双非一本商科 均分90出头 托福两年前考了个96 现在人在体制内上班爆金币 目前抓语言➕自学码 ；想通过打工签先去澳新爆金币，再申美或者欧的转码项目

问题就出在家里铁不支持 家长已发疯belike如果出国就断绝关系（我证件在他们手里我还得想办法偷回来）； 说回国我就再也找不到这么“好”的工作（实际：体制内天天被关系户恶心，编制离职违约金4w）

每在老中一天对我来说都是煎熬，当年疫情被学校黑掉保研资格，优营白费的时候我没有放弃（现在想想何尝不是上天让我别在老中）找工作考研申国外三手抓的时候没有放弃，现在真的累了，工作压力、自我内耗、还有转专业申请的压力，家长在那一口一个我们没用帮不了你但是你必须被我控制我真的蚌埠住了

死也不死在老中捏😅 有没有大佬讲讲怎么破局

有没可能就是说我直接亖了然后重生之我是快乐老白我的美好生活直接实现

• Author: Previous-Yak-3557
• Created: 2022-09-26 08:38:08 UTC
• Score: 3
• ID: ipy5a89
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现在肯定还是稳住家里 但是他们认定了就不会改的😅 20年就说过了考不上国内研就算出去读了我也是废物

• Author: Mikasaackmann
• Created: 2022-09-26 10:14:59 UTC
• Score: 2
• ID: ipybv0n
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是的，和我一样说在考不上国内研究生都是智商有问题的，在国内是废物还指望出去混的好？国外文凭不认可啦或者不愿意看到我出去花几十万回来就赚2000.3000

• Author: Previous-Yak-3557
• Created: 2022-09-26 11:37:21 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: ipyip9m
• Ups=1 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/xodht3/润不掉就只能重开了捏/ipyip9m/

没懂国内卷死怎么就含金量高了 我自己考的成绩自己找的工作到他们这就成了回来找不到工作 but 老中家长是这样的 反正现在不花一分钱他们还有面子

• Author: FwjedsfE
• Created: 2022-09-26 08:43:02 UTC
• Score: 64
• ID: ipy5m2l
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到红迪了还用你嘛缩写😅，是体制内打不出来嘛？

• Author: Previous-Yak-3557
• Created: 2022-09-26 09:09:26 UTC
• Score: -31
• ID: ipy7d45
• Ups=-31 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/xodht3/润不掉就只能重开了捏/ipy7d45/

天天微信骂洼地习惯了而已😅

• Author: wohenanren
• Created: 2022-09-26 08:43:37 UTC
• Score: 23
• ID: ipy5nfx
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捏爆你卵蛋

• Author: Previous-Yak-3557
• Created: 2022-09-26 09:13:14 UTC
• Score: -33
• ID: ipy7m5k
• Ups=-33 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/xodht3/润不掉就只能重开了捏/ipy7m5k/

茶壶嘴戾气还挺重啊😅

• Author: wohenanren
• Created: 2022-09-26 09:13:45 UTC
• Score: 13
• ID: ipy7nct
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烂梗蛆滚

• Author: Dick18cmmm
• Created: 2022-09-26 08:58:56 UTC
• Score: 4
• ID: ipy6nl2
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重开不如偷渡

• Author: abcdefuxi
• Created: 2022-09-26 09:10:17 UTC
• Score: 22
• ID: ipy7f48
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反正体制内，也不会开了你，别工作了自学编程算了

• Author: Previous-Yak-3557
• Created: 2022-09-26 09:18:28 UTC
• Score: -13
• ID: ipy7yd4
• Ups=-13 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/xodht3/润不掉就只能重开了捏/ipy7yd4/

可以滴 就是不知道得几年之后才能出去了

• Author: Reasonable-Rooster15
• Created: 2022-09-27 02:11:33 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: iq1y5iz
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你不学编程也不知道几年后能出去啊

• Author: Previous-Yak-3557
• Created: 2022-09-27 05:55:58 UTC
• Score: 2
• ID: iq2m19a
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有道理 也不能急在一时

• Author: dinadu
• Created: 2022-09-26 09:17:55 UTC
• Score: 10
• ID: ipy7x34
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童子尿？

• Author: kaguraP
• Created: 2022-09-26 09:24:00 UTC
• Score: 11
• ID: ipy8brd
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我当时刚毕业2个月就被开，家里一分金币都没提供，我这种开局其实才是穷逼毕业生常态，不慌，你先准备申whv,双非国内自学转码找的工作估计没你现在好

• Author: Previous-Yak-3557
• Created: 2022-09-26 09:30:06 UTC
• Score: 0
• ID: ipy8qhu
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谢谢建议 会采纳的 其实家里的金币本来也没指望，就是被家长发疯搞的心理压力很大 努力调理然后准备打工吧

• Author: uniyk
• Created: 2022-09-26 12:40:02 UTC
• Score: 3
• ID: ipyp4d6
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现在润哪了？

• Author: Fancy_Invite9226
• Created: 2022-09-26 09:39:34 UTC
• Score: -5
• ID: ipy9df3
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澳洲whv是十万人抢5000名额 并且是抽签 建议抢新西兰名额

• Author: Previous-Yak-3557
• Created: 2022-09-26 09:44:56 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: ipy9qpn
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是的 打算今年抢抢新试试 澳太难了

• Author: Swissescapism
• Created: 2022-09-26 09:51:28 UTC
• Score: 18
• ID: ipya717
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体制内鼠鼠必须狠狠拷打再放过海关

• Author: Mikasaackmann
• Created: 2022-09-26 10:13:04 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: ipybq4j
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我也是这种情况出去就断绝关系.....

• Author: Previous-Yak-3557
• Created: 2022-09-26 11:35:59 UTC
• Score: 2
• ID: ipyikny
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一样的😅这还是我保证回来不润的情况下

• Author: Tismod
• Created: 2022-09-26 10:26:55 UTC
• Score: 23
• ID: ipycqln
• Ups=23 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/xodht3/润不掉就只能重开了捏/ipycqln/

捏不捏啊?太捏了这个

• Author: nicetryblendmix
• Created: 2022-09-26 11:09:44 UTC
• Score: 10
• ID: ipyg7ko
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缩写蛆滚，你永远都是。

• Author: Previous-Yak-3557
• Created: 2022-09-26 11:32:06 UTC
• Score: 0
• ID: ipyi7kw
• Ups=0 | Submitter=true | Controversiality=1 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/xodht3/润不掉就只能重开了捏/ipyi7kw/

欠骟是吧😅

• Author: phara420
• Created: 2022-09-26 11:13:55 UTC
• Score: 0
• ID: ipygkm3
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直接旅游跑去墨西哥 走路去阿美。

• Author: OrchidPure
• Created: 2022-09-26 11:14:45 UTC
• Score: 0
• ID: ipygn96
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你自己够狠 不能白天tzn 晚上去工地搬砖 双休日去干兼职

• Author: [deleted]
• Created: 2022-09-26 12:43:12 UTC
• Score: 6
• ID: ipyph98
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[deleted]

• Author: Previous-Yak-3557
• Created: 2022-09-26 12:44:08 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: ipypl54
• Ups=1 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/xodht3/润不掉就只能重开了捏/ipypl54/

正确的

• Author: oy1616
• Created: 2022-09-26 13:33:12 UTC
• Score: 3
• ID: ipyvlkt
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你家几个孩子？要是独生子女的话，你润了你父母真会和你断绝关系？你又不花他们的钱，既然经济上无法掌控你，我觉得大概率是求你回去

• Author: Previous-Yak-3557
• Created: 2022-09-27 00:03:52 UTC
• Score: 3
• ID: iq1h586
• Ups=3 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/xodht3/润不掉就只能重开了捏/iq1h586/

是独生子女，现在是阻拦不给金币证件➕威胁，等以后真的出去独立了就该怕我了🥲

• Author: Suspicious_Book_8518
• Created: 2022-09-26 14:02:25 UTC
• Score: 3
• ID: ipyzi75
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体制内薪水很低吗？如果还可以，体制内备考应该不错吧

• Author: Previous-Yak-3557
• Created: 2022-09-27 00:07:19 UTC
• Score: 3
• ID: iq1hlon
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一线算挺低的 也不是闲着 经常打杂➕黑工（闲和忙五五开吧 也只能这样趁机自学了） 也没法经济独立租不起房子住出去 周围老破小比我工资都高

• Author: [deleted]
• Created: 2022-09-26 17:17:00 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: ipzsqe0
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多少个金币

• Author: springeverythingaaa
• Created: 2022-09-27 00:50:59 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: iq1neg9
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证件不就护照么？你就说丢了，去补办。

• Author: Previous-Yak-3557
• Created: 2022-09-27 05:54:36 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: iq2lxc2
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现在估计不好补了 不过如果独立离开家的时候可以试试 还有户口本出生证明那些

• Author: Minat0aqua
• Created: 2022-09-27 02:11:00 UTC
• Score: 4
• ID: iq1y2xr
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满嘴捏捏捏，真活该在索多玛受罪

• Author: Previous-Yak-3557
• Created: 2022-09-27 05:53:48 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: iq2lv12
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又成满嘴啦 用不用跟帖子内容有关系吗您就破防了🥺我只有在阴阳的时候才这么说话捏

• Author: Minat0aqua
• Created: 2022-09-27 06:19:43 UTC
• Score: 4
• ID: iq2nxha
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你很懂破防阴阳， 还是带着你的精神胜利和捏永世轮回种花吧，一身低能味儿别散出去了

• Author: Illustrious_Act_8103
• Created: 2022-09-27 07:50:11 UTC
• Score: 9
• ID: iq2uil9
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捏有什么问题吗？别人想说什么就说什么，这种自由我只能说如果你真的讨厌种花家，是应该尊重的。看你的样子我觉得你就是一个没清理干净的中华野狗

• Author: xijinping8964irl
• Created: 2022-09-27 04:13:06 UTC
• Score: 2
• ID: iq2cr95
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别跟他们说。假装认怂，偷偷准备好文件和钱。

每一位润友都不要把自己的打算跟家里说。就算需要钱，也要用骗的方式。

• Author: Previous-Yak-3557
• Created: 2022-09-27 05:56:15 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: iq2m23i
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一针见血的

• Author: Previous-Yak-3557
• Created: 2022-09-27 05:57:10 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: iq2m4ry
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我是和一个打工过的朋友聊天被家人偷听了🥲现在我先认怂了

• Author: Mobyrickdom
• Created: 2022-09-27 04:24:16 UTC
• Score: 2
• ID: iq2dvoz
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穷蛆都能撸贷走线，你这条件办法多了去了

• Author: Unlikely_Macaron5877
• Created: 2022-09-27 05:16:20 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: iq2ipc5
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认识好几个体制内工作几年攒金币再走的 加油

• Author: Previous-Yak-3557
• Created: 2022-09-27 05:59:31 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: iq2mbmk
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好滴 谢谢宝

• Author: Illustrious_Act_8103
• Created: 2022-09-27 07:48:14 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: iq2udp4
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不是，你父母都把你生成中国人了，你还怕他们断绝关系？赶紧偷了证件，顺便把他们钱拿了走人。