小留怎么融入

到澳洲读本科第二个月，一周四节课，有大把课余时间，课下基本在家打游戏。怎么用课余时间交点朋友啊，感觉真尼玛孤独，要玉玉了。 现在基本上就是和几个国内同学玩，但又感觉跟他们格格不入。上课看到个country下带香港要跳脚，打游戏对面发个ez就说别人辱华，自己还经常发 n word，每次都觉得好尴尬。但他们都能找到当地的朋友，经常去加陌生人fb然后用自己的雅思5.5口语嗯交流。 我自己平时会送送外卖，和人交流问题不是很大。但冲浪太久了真的有点带入现实了，总觉得小黄人不配。 哎，

• Author: Interesting-Age2367
• Created: 2023-04-17 10:52:31 UTC
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呃…和其它同学交朋友啊？

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• Created: 2023-04-17 13:46:04 UTC
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哎，但每次说完正事后，就不太好意思骚扰别人

• Author: Interesting-Age2367
• Created: 2023-04-17 14:58:15 UTC
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我原本也挺自闭的，但是我碰到了一个特别热情的邻居，带着我到处耍。碰碰运气，要是遇到这种人想自闭都自闭不起来

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• Created: 2023-04-17 11:01:57 UTC
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• Created: 2023-04-17 11:24:16 UTC
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众所周知高尔基写的《我的大学》它不是真的大学

• Author: CyberCorpsePredator
• Created: 2023-04-17 11:30:32 UTC
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大把课余时间，课下基本在家打游戏

要玉玉了

😅我不好评价

• Author: yuedun
• Created: 2023-04-17 13:45:02 UTC
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哈哈还真是，在洼地一直关禁闭，只会打游戏了。

• Author: yosjd
• Created: 2023-04-17 11:41:34 UTC
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是我就各种恶习搞起来了，抽烟喝酒大麻，我个人觉得这些方式还是对社交有帮助的，平时同学有party 你酒也不喝，怎么融呀

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• Created: 2023-04-17 12:14:40 UTC
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喝酒+1

不貴也不會上癮 最多就是明天痛苦一天 以後只會成爲回憶

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• Created: 2023-04-17 11:45:39 UTC
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别太要脸

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• Created: 2023-04-17 13:13:35 UTC
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• Author: nosurprises-
• Created: 2023-04-17 14:14:30 UTC
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社团，或直接找你校 international house 或类似开给国际生（不是开给中国人）的组织，就跟他们说你融入不了，他们一般有办法。实在不行上课积极点，多提问，然后去 office hour 和 TA 教授聊去，混个脸熟对成绩没准也有帮助呢。

• Author: yuedun
• Created: 2023-04-17 14:25:59 UTC
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很好的建议，感谢

• Author: Okie_Muddy_30
• Created: 2023-04-17 14:35:53 UTC
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去上个语言学校找班里的打工妹嗯聊

• Author: DoLayLowMore
• Created: 2023-04-17 14:42:46 UTC
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感觉op和我很像啊😅除了家里条件更好之外。可以在网上找当地的社区服务，实习或志愿者什么的，或者混教堂和爱好者circle, 洋人哪怕看黄片都能线下找人边聊天边撸管呢，哪怕你只有打游戏这一个爱好，也不至于找不到同好线下时常聚聚

• Author: prof_cyniv
• Created: 2023-04-17 15:22:13 UTC
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洋人哪怕看黄片都能线下找人边聊天边撸管呢

？你认识的都是些什么人

• Author: Bitter-Gear2743
• Created: 2023-04-17 15:21:58 UTC
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一周四节课真心羡慕

• Author: Past-Philosopher9969
• Created: 2023-04-17 20:00:00 UTC
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课太少没事做的话反而是浪费时间

• Author: Bitter-Gear2743
• Created: 2023-04-17 21:05:45 UTC
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总比college一周八九节连轴转门门有作业quiz考试一堆好

• Author: Regular-Rub-2099
• Created: 2023-04-17 15:49:11 UTC
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其实蛮简单的，只是绝大部分的小留做不到，笑死。

每天花至少3小时学英语，听说和单词量，半年后自然就会融入得很好。

• Author: WittyRepublic3152
• Created: 2023-04-19 03:50:10 UTC
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在国内就开始嗯背单词嗯听，出国后时间宝贵

• Author: Few-Help9803
• Created: 2023-04-17 16:04:44 UTC
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要么去找些团体类运动，你主动请他们组你或者等他们组你？完事后，嘿，交个朋友吧，相信都能交到

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• Created: 2023-04-17 17:02:11 UTC
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插眼

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大胆交流如果你小黄人同学有本地朋友圈你也可以借机融进去

• Author: Ericln
• Created: 2023-04-17 19:02:06 UTC
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找个班上全解决了

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https://www.meetup.com/apps/

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你真要融入的话去party啊

• Author: Unknown_Personnel_
• Created: 2023-04-17 20:10:07 UTC
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一个单独的男性想来party, 我是bouncer把他放进来第二天就得跟host party的人谢罪.

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• Created: 2023-04-17 21:21:10 UTC
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你听说过fraternity么，加入一个试试，澳洲应该叫college

• Author: chillingHors
• Created: 2023-04-18 05:56:08 UTC
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肯定得有你们学校的discord群吧，打游戏又没问题，我也喜欢打游戏 那就跟宅宅一起玩啊 discord群平时连麦打打游戏讨论一下自己感兴趣的东西，加入一些club总有人玩得来的

• Author: lym666
• Created: 2023-04-18 08:46:29 UTC
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在cbr找我玩🥵

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和外国同学一起的时候辱华开几个中国玩笑 立刻融爆了

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• Created: 2023-04-18 10:12:48 UTC
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仅代表个人经验：去上几节你感兴趣的小众专业的课，跟freshmen一起上课，稍微外向一点很容易交朋友的。我之前在cs屁同学都不认识，现在转了个一届只有30个人的小专业，我和五六个比我小四岁白人每天泡在一起，每个周末都喝酒看电影。今年真的是我过的最开心最充实的一年。

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• Created: 2023-04-18 11:39:45 UTC
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CY

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• Created: 2023-04-18 14:36:10 UTC
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参加点兴趣小组呗

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• Created: 2023-04-18 16:21:49 UTC
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每个礼拜去青旅住几天

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• Created: 2023-04-18 16:43:39 UTC
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先从交其他国家的国际学生开始。我发现很多本国人不好处的，反而是印度、德国、希腊等国的国际学生好处。反正大家都是外国人。

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• Created: 2023-04-23 00:14:54 UTC
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office hour多去和TA/professor嗯聊，促进学习；平时加一点运动类型的社团，澳洲户外运动应该也很多机会吧，这些都挺好的，别打游戏了

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• Created: 2023-04-23 01:33:03 UTC
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嗯交流是什么意思

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• Created: 2023-04-23 01:33:45 UTC
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嗯交流是什么意思

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• Created: 2023-04-23 01:34:12 UTC
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小黄人就是被驯化的奴隶，不用想着变好

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• Created: 2023-04-23 01:34:26 UTC
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小黄人就是被驯化的奴隶，不必想着变好