本人大龄，带孩子想逃出去，求建议

疫情三年工作没了，欠款刚还完，攒的钱也不多，也找不到工作。本人40多岁，独自带着12岁的儿子，也不懂英文，对这个软件也不熟悉不太会玩，求各路大神建议，去哪里比较适合孩子和我，拜托了！！愿上帝保佑大家！

• Author: zhongchangye
• Created: 2023-07-12 15:59:05 UTC
• Score: 2
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中国

• Author: Organic_Challenge151
• Created: 2023-07-12 16:23:57 UTC
• Score: 29
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额啥都没有怎么逃

• Author: This-Selection7763
• Created: 2023-07-12 16:33:16 UTC
• Score: -29
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有个20刀吧

• Author: fckdejp
• Created: 2023-07-12 16:30:52 UTC
• Score: 12
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还是先存钱吧，孩子这么小到哪儿教育不是开支啊，趁孩子还在读书你也赶紧把语言能力和资金准备起来吧。现在这个情况去哪儿都会更麻烦的

• Author: kenny323y
• Created: 2023-07-12 16:43:44 UTC
• Score: 28
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你是怎么知道本sub的？

• Author: Murky_Mobile4833
• Created: 2023-07-13 02:32:45 UTC
• Score: 23
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确实，怀疑晶🎣

• Author: caden0
• Created: 2023-07-12 17:00:07 UTC
• Score: 7
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40岁，it码农，纯写代码，目前在外企，没考过雅思但本组同事都是美国人所以英语算能交流，想润枫叶国，但是拿不到枫叶国工签，过不去，有朋友的朋友在gm，投了简历，但gm的hr说他们不搞LMIA，不能直接雇外国人，感觉自己好丧…

唉，计划得太晚了，十年前怎么不想想这个问题…

• Author: Practical-Title-3366
• Created: 2023-07-12 17:53:48 UTC
• Score: -1
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先去香港吧

• Author: vega-sicilia
• Created: 2023-07-12 19:49:29 UTC
• Score: 20
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十年前还在爱国呢

• Author: Electronic_Big_9676
• Created: 2023-07-12 20:44:10 UTC
• Score: 18
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一年前估计还是呢，中国现在真的爆了

• Author: caden0
• Created: 2023-07-13 00:05:32 UTC
• Score: 4
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那倒不是，以前觉得还能过又何必润，得过且过得了

• Author: Mental_Candy_7264
• Created: 2023-07-13 01:34:47 UTC
• Score: 17
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现在也能过，你还能说话发帖呢，不是还活的好好的吗？别润了。日子咋样都是过，朝鲜人不也是日子还能过吗？

• Author: vega-sicilia
• Created: 2023-07-13 05:15:39 UTC
• Score: 5
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他说话是挺矛盾的 现在怎么就不能过了？

• Author: LittleAdvisor5892
• Created: 2023-07-14 15:20:47 UTC
• Score: 3
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这种事情永远不晚，但润者之心是大决心大善大智慧，核心精神是生死置之度外。换句话说润者如果没能润出去，留在中国就是搞革命开献，润只是他们优选的更温柔的方式。 所以，你敢开献自然就润的走。你敢吗？润不是什么潮流，普通人做学不会。退一万步送你张签证，明天就走，两手空空，什么都带不走，一切从头开始，你敢走吗？

• Author: LittleAdvisor5892
• Created: 2023-07-14 15:24:41 UTC
• Score: 3
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而普通人永远都是当时想不通，现在来不及，殊不知现在就是过去未来即是现在，现在没想通未来还是来不及，想润没用，敢死才是润的决心。

• Author: ForwardAd6461
• Created: 2023-07-12 23:21:56 UTC
• Score: 8
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法语嗯学法语通道ee直接干捞试试？

• Author: hooooooos
• Created: 2023-07-12 17:09:48 UTC
• Score: 1
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试试日本？

• Author: LittleAdvisor5892
• Created: 2023-07-12 22:25:52 UTC
• Score: 11
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实话说，这两年润出去的都是不但有文化，还有财商的人，他们在社会中层没有信息优势，靠的都是自己的智慧，但这种人的比例大概千万分之一吧，普通人真的玩不过政府的。 或者起码有魄力敢走线，但失败率也是挺高的。

• Author: United_Pepper7548
• Created: 2023-07-13 00:44:28 UTC
• Score: 4
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孩子送出去上学，父母陪读，孩子为中心润比啥都不懂适应力差的父母润简单点，但这个至少也是中产能走的路了

• Author: [deleted]
• Created: 2023-07-13 02:23:24 UTC
• Score: 1
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• Created: 2023-07-13 02:27:15 UTC
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• Author: Ai_Bao_Ai_Dang
• Created: 2023-07-13 02:52:58 UTC
• Score: 9
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赶紧献几个小孩，为下辈子重开积德

• Author: Powerful-Carrot-1684
• Created: 2023-07-13 02:59:14 UTC
• Score: 2
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攒钱把儿子送出去，让他以后再接你过去

• Author: Apprehensive-Tip7654
• Created: 2023-07-13 03:34:13 UTC
• Score: 15
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加我微信xjp8964详谈

• Author: This-Selection7763
• Created: 2023-07-13 06:28:59 UTC
• Score: -11
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添加不了，查无此号

• Author: This-Selection7763
• Created: 2023-07-13 06:23:00 UTC
• Score: 1
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你微信加不上查无此号

• Author: No-Post-6977
• Created: 2023-07-13 11:14:44 UTC
• Score: 2
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去马来西亚

• Author: No-Post-6977
• Created: 2023-07-13 11:18:02 UTC
• Score: -3
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建议先卖淫攒个大几万就好办了

• Author: This-Selection7763
• Created: 2023-07-13 11:38:08 UTC
• Score: 4
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你这说的是人话吗

• Author: No-Post-6977
• Created: 2023-07-13 11:38:50 UTC
• Score: -2
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卖淫来钱快 😭

• Author: This-Selection7763
• Created: 2023-07-13 11:44:35 UTC
• Score: 1
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让你老母也去

• Author: No-Post-6977
• Created: 2023-07-13 12:07:47 UTC
• Score: -3
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呃呃 你不是要润吗 连这都不想做呵呵

• Author: [deleted]
• Created: 2023-07-18 03:03:50 UTC
• Score: 1
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• Author: CyberFalseFlag
• Created: 2023-07-13 17:05:24 UTC
• Score: 2
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你这情况，只能再借点去走线了

• Author: MGwind
• Created: 2023-07-14 13:13:17 UTC
• Score: 2
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去泰国吧

• Author: One-North-5745
• Created: 2023-07-14 15:11:19 UTC
• Score: 11
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先别带孩子逃出去，孩子造了什么孽跟你奔波。先出国打工吧，赚到钱寄回家给孩子补课学英语。最烦的就是没钱还生孩子，自己心比天高吃不了苦，没有规划，现在嚎我都替孩子不值。如果是那种孤身一人的男生，当然推荐孤注一掷走线，你拖家带口没有能力，孩子何必和你赴黄泉

• Author: One-North-5745
• Created: 2023-07-14 15:19:40 UTC
• Score: 2
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不学习外文还逃出去？逃妈了个逼呢。起码雅思得过，去日本要学日语，去德法要学德法语，除非你去东南亚被割腰子，孩子真是倒霉，以后要被坑。不学去新加坡和日本，也只能工厂12小时嗯干，加班15.16小时也有，你还不如洼地送外卖给孩子口吃的就行，让孩子雅思嗯过。走线不提死亡率了，到美国也只能华人餐馆打工，你小孩也受歧视，只能寄托下下一代生个美国人出来

• Author: Bright_Ad6332
• Created: 2023-07-18 10:21:16 UTC
• Score: 2
• ID: jsfpnqi
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给op的建议就是至少要学外语，外语一点不会去了只能黑中餐馆，孩子也受苦受累，而且不一定能有教育