如题，本人目前已获得加拿大某大学带奖博士offer，但是我出于学校实力以及funding数量因素考虑决定不去。但是我当时套磁的时候跟老师说我想要加入他的课题组，现在反悔实在感到过意不去（实在对不起，我出尔反尔的老中基因又在作祟了），请问各位假如老师发邮件问我的话我怎么解释比较合适呢？
- Author: kasite
- Created: 2024-11-05 08:00:24 UTC
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Dear Professor [教授姓名], Thank you very much for offering me the Ph.D. position in your group. I am very honored to be considered for this opportunity. I have carefully considered your offer and other options. After much thought, I have decided to pursue a different path at this time. This was a difficult decision to make, and I sincerely apologize for any inconvenience this may cause. I truly appreciate you taking the time to review my application and consider me for your group. Your research on [研究领域] is truly inspiring, and I have learned a great deal from your work. I hope that we can stay in touch in the future. I am still very interested in your research, and I would be happy to follow your group's progress. Thank you again for your time and consideration. Sincerely, [你的姓名]
- Author: shuduk
- Created: 2024-11-05 08:20:31 UTC
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非常感谢您的回复！对我很有帮助！
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- Created: 2024-11-05 08:04:35 UTC
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- Author: Visible-Atmosphere72
- Created: 2024-11-05 08:17:16 UTC
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哪个省的大学？
- Author: Appropriate-Gas262
- Created: 2024-11-05 13:12:58 UTC
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带奖，PhD送PR都不去么
- Author: shuduk
- Created: 2024-11-05 13:21:00 UTC
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主要是感觉去了自己大概率后悔，我也不是冲着移民去读博的，觉得还是前途比较重要
- Author: Appropriate-Gas262
- Created: 2024-11-05 13:22:43 UTC
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也是看专业吧 retard 专业确实意义不大
- Author: Od_zer
- Created: 2024-11-05 13:55:50 UTC
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“能发nature子刊吗，发不了子刊我就滚啦” “能发顶会吗，发不了顶会我就滚啦” “能发the Philosophical review吗”发不了我就滚啦” … 就这样回呗
- Author: Winnie_Leave_2970
- Created: 2024-11-06 09:25:51 UTC
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确实，加拿大读书就是为了有工签，读满两年且专业是紧缺专业就行了，博士对口工作反而不是那么好找
- Author: yougiho
- Created: 2024-11-05 14:57:45 UTC
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楼主好厉害，这几年加拿大的带奖phd挺难拿的，竞争很激烈
- Author: Electrical-List2
- Created: 2024-11-05 21:07:18 UTC
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就说不去了
- Author: Dear_Protection6002
- Created: 2024-11-06 06:06:26 UTC
- Score: 2
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chatgpt is your friend.
- Author: Chinchongsinagin8964
- Created: 2024-11-11 22:44:09 UTC
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不去了跟人家好好说就成 你要实在过意不去就Xmas给人寄个贺卡啥的 decommit这事儿北美各行各业不还是司空见惯的嘛
- Author: shuduk
- Created: 2024-11-13 07:21:45 UTC
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好的，谢谢您！已经跟老师解释了，老师也没有再追究