如题，本人目前已获得加拿大某大学带奖博士offer，但是我出于学校实力以及funding数量因素考虑决定不去。但是我当时套磁的时候跟老师说我想要加入他的课题组，现在反悔实在感到过意不去（实在对不起，我出尔反尔的老中基因又在作祟了），请问各位假如老师发邮件问我的话我怎么解释比较合适呢？
kasite · 2024-11-05 08:00:24 UTC · +35 ·
lvhow4j· ↗Dear Professor [教授姓名], Thank you very much for offering me the Ph.D. position in your group. I am very honored to be considered for this opportunity. I have carefully considered your offer and other options. After much thought, I have decided to pursue a different path at this time. This was a difficult decision to make, and I sincerely apologize for any inconvenience this may cause. I truly appreciate you taking the time to review my application and consider me for your group. Your research on [研究领域] is truly inspiring, and I have learned a great deal from your work. I hope that we can stay in touch in the future. I am still very interested in your research, and I would be happy to follow your group's progress. Thank you again for your time and consideration. Sincerely, [你的姓名]
shuduk · 2024-11-05 08:20:31 UTC · +2 ·
lvhqpjd·OP· ↗非常感谢您的回复！对我很有帮助！
[deleted] · 2024-11-05 08:04:35 UTC · +1 ·
lvhp9p6· ↗[removed]
Visible-Atmosphere72 · 2024-11-05 08:17:16 UTC · +0 ·
lvhqey5· ↗哪个省的大学？
Appropriate-Gas262 · 2024-11-05 13:12:58 UTC · +9 ·
lvilupp· ↗带奖，PhD送PR都不去么
shuduk · 2024-11-05 13:21 UTC · +11 ·
lvin3rj·OP· ↗主要是感觉去了自己大概率后悔，我也不是冲着移民去读博的，觉得还是前途比较重要
Appropriate-Gas262 · 2024-11-05 13:22:43 UTC · +2 ·
lvindoa· ↗也是看专业吧 retard 专业确实意义不大
Od_zer · 2024-11-05 13:55:50 UTC · +6 ·
lvisvn7· ↗“能发nature子刊吗，发不了子刊我就滚啦” “能发顶会吗，发不了顶会我就滚啦” “能发the Philosophical review吗”发不了我就滚啦” … 就这样回呗
Winnie_Leave_2970 · 2024-11-06 09:25:51 UTC · +1 ·
lvoi5yx·准备跑路· ↗确实，加拿大读书就是为了有工签，读满两年且专业是紧缺专业就行了，博士对口工作反而不是那么好找
yougiho · 2024-11-05 14:57:45 UTC · +7 ·
lvj3w2g· ↗楼主好厉害，这几年加拿大的带奖phd挺难拿的，竞争很激烈
Electrical-List2 · 2024-11-05 21:07:18 UTC · +1 ·
lvl7hbq· ↗就说不去了
Dear_Protection6002 · 2024-11-06 06:06:26 UTC · +2 ·
lvnruqj· ↗chatgpt is your friend.
Chinchongsinagin8964 · 2024-11-11 22:44:09 UTC · +1 ·
lwnobg1· ↗不去了跟人家好好说就成 你要实在过意不去就Xmas给人寄个贺卡啥的 decommit这事儿北美各行各业不还是司空见惯的嘛
shuduk · 2024-11-13 07:21:45 UTC · +1 ·
lwvu1if·OP· ↗好的，谢谢您！已经跟老师解释了，老师也没有再追究