此贴无关润,但是我确实没想到一个能给我理性建议的组。

坐标奧克兰,在挂壁青旅,刚洗完澡还是不能平静下来,脑子很乱。

昨天订了回上海的机票,因为新西兰在圣诞节前不是很好找工作,膝盖因为干农场也受伤了,又想起来之前一个群友说催收工作收入挺可观(坐着工作,恢复膝盖),就想着回国待几个月,顺便解决可能因为颈椎曲度直导致的整天的大脑昏沉,驾照。

但是,找不到坐着的工作以外都是钱的问题。刚刚吃饭特别焦虑,因为账单已经累计到6 w 人民币了,这一趟回去很可能陷入债务危机要以贷养贷了。

最近心理状态很不稳定,一直想着摆烂。权衡完利弊也做不了决定,有点像躁郁症期间不能做事。

我是该看一下医生评估一下膝盖,再去好找工作的地方找工作还是回国,帮帮我


  • Author: ApartAd9307
  • Created: 2024-11-30 23:50:15 UTC
  • Score: 6
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不润,是大智慧

  • Author: DependentOk7303
  • Created: 2024-11-30 23:53:10 UTC
  • Score: 6
  • ID: lzsj1q1
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已经不想着润的事了,我的核心问题是钱,润或者不润可以先放在一边

  • Author: huaiyazi26
  • Created: 2024-12-01 00:00:12 UTC
  • Score: 16
  • ID: lzsk7ho
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出国干苦力不是什么好事。润能搞到钱才是真。

  • Author: pigeon_reborn
  • Created: 2024-12-01 00:09:33 UTC
  • Score: 7
  • ID: lzslry1
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建议回国,在你没有更多资产的情况下

  • Author: JoseSebastianW123
  • Created: 2024-12-01 00:32:04 UTC
  • Score: 21
  • ID: lzspik9
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先舒缓情绪,冷静后再做决定。身体最重要,养伤第一位,回洼地取决于家境和社会地位

  • Author: Riemann1826
  • Created: 2024-12-01 00:33:16 UTC
  • Score: 4
  • ID: lzsppn5
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为啥积累债务?

  • Author: Appropriate-Gas262
  • Created: 2024-12-01 00:38:56 UTC
  • Score: 0
  • ID: lzsqmra
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洼地是通过落后的制度(户口,内参,体制)来控制底层人口,分化基层
发达经济体通过复杂的经济制度(要求对于经济,信息的高度处理能力)来驱动底层人口
或者说分化阶层
(一个粗放落后,一个效率更高,但是本质上人类有优胜劣汰的阶级分层逻辑是不变的)
这两年真的越来越有,越出国越爱国(党)的觉悟了
坚决拥共反支吧,大家

  • Author: Creative_Address_216
  • Created: 2024-12-01 00:40:30 UTC
  • Score: 3
  • ID: lzsqvye
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心态放好!把身心健康搞好,6W很快能还清。保持耐心

  • Author: MediumDifference606
  • Created: 2024-12-01 01:27:45 UTC
  • Score: 2
  • ID: lzsyivt
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silverfern hostel?

  • Author: DependentOk7303
  • Created: 2024-12-01 01:29:22 UTC
  • Score: 1
  • ID: lzsys5f
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  • Author: Winnie_Leave_2970
  • Created: 2024-12-01 04:00:18 UTC
  • Score: 6
  • ID: lztlpnd
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正好熟悉以下催收,以后撸小贷也能知己知彼

  • Author: Big_Concept_5168
  • Created: 2024-12-01 13:20:40 UTC
  • Score: 1
  • ID: lzv78di
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请问你是用什么签证到新西兰的啊

  • Author: duliri
  • Created: 2024-12-02 02:03:04 UTC
  • Score: 5
  • ID: lzyzbt5
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六万人民币不算啥大钱,对你的人生来说。

但是你的情况如果真的没有进一步挣钱的能力以及在新西兰无法免费医疗的情况下,肯定还是回国最好

  • Author: DependentOk7303
  • Created: 2024-12-02 02:08:07 UTC
  • Score: 1
  • ID: lzz06hd
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感谢 今天放弃跟华人雇主联系了 决定回国一段时间

  • Author: Physical_Dinner_3440
  • Created: 2024-12-02 08:27:51 UTC
  • Score: 1
  • ID: m00b94m
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受伤了没有工伤

  • Author: HopefulIndication565
  • Created: 2024-12-04 15:12:41 UTC
  • Score: 1
  • ID: m0dm748
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回去就出不来了,你自己想想!