大家会有这种感觉嘛

出国后总会意识到自己长得和别人不一样，无论如何永远被人一眼看出来是外国人。相比之下，其他国际生朋友会直接被人当作是本地人。其实这也没啥，但是我本人比较社恐，很害怕引起注意，有时候走在偏一点的城市，都会经常有人看我。晚上会突然有人问我where are you from？

当然也有一些不同的遭遇。比如结账，收银员跟前面一个人和热情互动，到我这儿我打招呼他不理，说thank you他也不理。可能是我想多了，但这种情况多了，总觉得怪怪的。有一次去别的国家旅游，售货员用他们当地语言突然对我输出，而我完全没有任何互动的意思，还离他老远。我就只能sorry？然后得到了他和他身边一个亚洲人的一阵嘲笑。我经常想如果别人不能从我的长相看出来我是外国人，可能会少很多麻烦😂不知道会不会有润友有类似的感受。

• Author: ufstc
• Created: 2025-01-06 00:22:11 UTC
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别多想，他们只是认为你是间谍而已

• Author: Kath_latt
• Created: 2025-01-06 00:23:58 UTC
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有可能🤣

• Author: Song1801
• Created: 2025-01-07 16:31:30 UTC
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《只是》

• Author: Organic_Challenge151
• Created: 2025-01-06 00:23:36 UTC
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其他国际生朋友会直接被人当作是本地人

也不至于吧？这些学生是asian吗

• Author: Kath_latt
• Created: 2025-01-06 00:24:53 UTC
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不是asian

• Author: akikosquid
• Created: 2025-01-06 00:40:05 UTC
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那他们长得都和当地人差不多肯定看不出来了啊

• Author: LifeParsley3721
• Created: 2025-01-06 00:25:08 UTC
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所以我挺喜欢香港的 感觉自己也不是minority （可惜这地方了）。在外我也有这种感觉，没办法，接受，然后不要怂。

• Author: Kath_latt
• Created: 2025-01-06 00:29:05 UTC
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对不要怂很关键，不然真容易被拿捏。btw香港确实是可惜了…

• Author: Secure_Custard_8514
• Created: 2025-01-06 01:17:18 UTC
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怎么去香港😭

• Author: LifeParsley3721
• Created: 2025-01-06 02:08:37 UTC
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领英狂投

• Author: DucklingQwQ
• Created: 2025-01-06 04:06:55 UTC
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現在留在這的大部分都是藍絲了，pro-mainlander對大陸人態度確實好點，不過支化也越來越快

• Author: poginmydog
• Created: 2025-01-06 16:49:42 UTC
• Score: 4
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HK is just another Chinese city

• Author: Undocumented_1649
• Created: 2025-01-06 00:29:04 UTC
• Score: 84
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你应该学学三哥三姐 人家来了支拿大就开始学会叫白人回欧洲了

• Author: Kath_latt
• Created: 2025-01-06 00:39:20 UTC
• Score: 15
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🤣他们是真的强 但凡我有他们一半的底气👍

• Author: JackReedTheSyndie
• Created: 2025-01-06 00:45:08 UTC
• Score: 30
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我觉得还好吧，爱理不理，反正在国内也是互相之间冷漠对待，有什么区别

• Author: Kath_latt
• Created: 2025-01-07 00:11:06 UTC
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确实，但是不太喜欢差别对待，但也只能慢慢习惯了

• Author: FreeXiJinpingAss
• Created: 2025-01-06 02:20:27 UTC
• Score: 24
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你可以对他们司马脸怒目圆睁 用魔法打败魔法，但这样做不利于心理健康，非常不建议。我现在遇到这种事都一脸无所谓地无视他们，反正烂人是少数，出门换家店遇张笑脸就把心情对冲了。实在受不了就去谷歌地图打一星差评说rude racist

• Author: boleban8

• Created: 2025-01-06 02:46:36 UTC

• Score: 50

• ID: m5mvi9c

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  前一阵子 我看到过一个 帖子，是一个收银员 提问的：他的提问是“为什么 和 许多 中国留学生 打招乎，他们都不理人的？”

你发的帖子 与 他发的 放在一起看，挺有意思的。

• Author: Sweaty-Rice3131
• Created: 2025-01-06 03:17:51 UTC
• Score: 12
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形象管理一下

• Author: pigeon_reborn
• Created: 2025-01-06 03:42:37 UTC
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没办法，你本来就是在别人的土地上讨生活的。你说的是一代移民必须承受的，等你的后代，到了二代不会有这样的问题了

• Author: Sr4inmadrid
• Created: 2025-01-06 04:12:35 UTC
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我在加拿大沒有很感受到, 在歐洲會感受到差別對待, 以及那種陰陽怪氣的nihao

• Author: Sr4inmadrid
• Created: 2025-01-06 04:12:48 UTC
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樓主是在哪裡?

• Author: Kath_latt
• Created: 2025-01-06 07:55:50 UTC
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我在欧洲，甚至被人大声喊过nihao…麻了

• Author: tokyo_great_grill
• Created: 2025-01-09 00:35:18 UTC
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欧洲种族歧视很重吧

• Author: [deleted]
• Created: 2025-01-22 18:01:55 UTC
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• Author: Tricky-Victory-1299
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学习讲师，IM Japanese，然后就可以反输出了。

• Author: New_Stomach9492
• Created: 2025-01-06 06:10:35 UTC
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我也有 但是我能做的就是自信些吧 这里终究不是我的国家

• Author: GroundbreakingEnd782
• Created: 2025-01-06 06:49:08 UTC
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没关系啦 我个人觉得久了就没什么所谓了 在国内很i的人出国反而变e了 要学会怼人 由此跟我男朋友出去被人问是不是亚女紧 我男朋友是那种忍者神龟瞪了他们很久 我就冲上去把他母系家族长辈全部问候一遍了 收银的时候也有碰见前一个客人满面笑容送出 梦见我一声不吭 我直接问她是不是搞特别对待 不行的话就等她上司过来我要投诉 出门在外 过分的事情不要忍着

• Author: Ok-Pen-3757
• Created: 2025-01-06 07:34:36 UTC
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哈哈那个casher最后怎么说？

• Author: GroundbreakingEnd782
• Created: 2025-01-06 07:46:19 UTC
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很不服气的道歉了- -我说我要下次来还排她这队哈哈哈哈

• Author: Ok-Pen-3757
• Created: 2025-01-06 08:20:06 UTC
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牛逼

• Author: Minmum-Verstappen
• Created: 2025-01-06 10:12:58 UTC
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nb 对这种就该这样

• Author: fktrashincn
• Created: 2025-01-06 07:58:47 UTC
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这么🐢的男友不分留着过年？

• Author: GroundbreakingEnd782
• Created: 2025-01-06 08:30:27 UTC
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他精灵 我哥布林 难得骗一个 算了

• Author: fktrashincn
• Created: 2025-01-06 07:57:41 UTC
• Score: 18
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大概率是形象太典了，虽然op可能内心和中国人基本盘不太一样，但是你得让人家从外表上把你和基本盘区分开，你才会感受到善意。可以提升衣品审美身材气质这些（被热情招待的大多也不仅仅是因为他们是本地人，更有可能是因为看起来是体面人）

• Author: Agreeable_Space8913
• Created: 2025-01-06 15:00:14 UTC
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胡说八道

• Author: Kath_latt
• Created: 2025-01-07 00:08:33 UTC
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我觉得我穿得很体面了，跟他们没啥区别😂

• Author: fktrashincn
• Created: 2025-01-07 07:57:51 UTC
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那估计就是你脾气太好了。。。看起来不好惹估计会好点

• Author: Minmum-Verstappen
• Created: 2025-01-06 10:11:14 UTC
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遇到打招呼不理的出生直接不用给它好脸色了 直接司马脸对着

• Author: Cold-Ad8379
• Created: 2025-01-06 14:01:59 UTC
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你是不是在欧洲

• Author: Agreeable_Space8913
• Created: 2025-01-06 15:01:11 UTC
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别说形象管理了好不，管理好了一堆白女背后说你坏话

• Author: fktrashincn
• Created: 2025-01-06 16:32:28 UTC
• Score: 4
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你要是真形象气质有实力在乎她们干什么，大多白女超过20岁就光速衰老，她们可能是嫉妒。

• Author: Agreeable_Space8913
• Created: 2025-01-06 16:36:37 UTC
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所以我就说啊，不修边幅人家翻你白眼，打扮得太好一样翻你白眼，所以牢中别反思了

• Author: fktrashincn
• Created: 2025-01-06 17:01:31 UTC
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这跟反思没关系， 只是给op提供一些很有可能是真相的思路，然而问题可能也解决不了，想解决就送中或者去亚洲地区。

以绝大多数中国人先天的出场配置，再加后天培养的那股气质，大多数人也打扮不出来（这可能是打扮了被人背后说的原因），如果真好看真有实力，也根本不会在乎白人怎样怎样了，他们基本上欺软怕硬的。尤其是在欧洲这种非移民地区，本地人爱打扮的多，审美基本也更好，和做题家小黄人就明显不是一类人

• Author: Agreeable_Space8913
• Created: 2025-01-06 17:03:23 UTC
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你想多了，一些德国土逼mean白女只看外表不如牢中中产女小瘤的一根批毛

• Author: fktrashincn
• Created: 2025-01-06 17:06:53 UTC
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德国这地方也不是移民国家，可以换地方

• Author: LeftSociety437
• Created: 2025-01-06 21:38:46 UTC
• Score: 5
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的确是，同样是asian，日韩和闹钟衽就好像不是一个物种一样，但关于这点我更偏向于后天因素导致的，也就是说闹钟对于自身外表要求过低以至于丑得千篇一律

• Author: United_Pepper7548
• Created: 2025-01-06 21:00:06 UTC
• Score: 2
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microaggression肯定存在的，这也是移民成为非主流群体的劣势之一，只能脸大点不要往心里去，该无视就无视，太过分了就骂回去，别特么上来几个人围殴都好说。

• Author: kaguraP
• Created: 2025-01-06 23:42:32 UTC
• Score: 0
• ID: m5s9091
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我猜是德国，我也准备去，害怕

• Author: [deleted]
• Created: 2025-01-07 10:04:59 UTC
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• Author: SeerosenZ
• Created: 2025-01-07 01:42:17 UTC
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受害者思维

• Author: Gustavoisback
• Created: 2025-01-07 13:19:17 UTC
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你这种，在北美abc嘴里叫fob，女生就叫fob girl

• Author: Beginning-Piece3473
• Created: 2025-01-07 15:20:44 UTC
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这就是歧视，忽视就是一种隐形歧视，东欧人也可以装西欧人但是黄皮真的无法

• Author: Kath_latt
• Created: 2025-01-07 17:56:53 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: m5wo1rh
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yep 甚至部分亚洲人也能装西欧人 但是中日韩就没办法了

• Author: These_Stand3430
• Created: 2025-01-08 01:25:52 UTC
• Score: 1
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我住黑人区只能见到黑人和老墨

• Author: Positive_Clock4076
• Created: 2025-01-19 19:58:59 UTC
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下次问你“where are you from” 直接说：“I was grown up in Orange county, and we speak English there”

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连一句英文都讲错，难怪人会问