诚心求助各位

 本人情况是 今年国内本科毕业，过年聚会亲戚和我说有法子让我婚绿留美，但要我下定决心走到底，同时家里人因为各种原因没办法经济上支持我，意味着我留美就要欠一笔债务导致我会滞留美国打工不知道多久。
  我之前的计划是毕业了之后攒两三年通过修士润日，日语已经有n3水平的，英语不太行。
 然后是我要求助的事情：我对二次元文化真的非常喜欢，我害怕我拿了绿卡之后大龄run日，会被日本的二次元文化割裂成为边缘人。我希望我的青春可以在日本度过。一边是机会一边是梦想，两个念头拉扯的我非常崩溃，身边没有这方面经历的人可以让我述说，所以我试着来这里寻找前辈们的帮助，真诚的希望各位能不吝赐教，给我一点意见或者看法。（真的没有阴阳怪气）

• Author: fudolana
• Created: 2025-01-13 02:34:46 UTC
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唉，下水道的穷老鼠，每一步都要小心翼翼

• Author: kurogane0328
• Created: 2025-01-13 02:51:46 UTC
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婚绿风险也不小，遇到个家暴的你不是直接走远了？没钱就老老实实润日，英语不好去婚绿纯遭罪搞不好还留不下来。一样要婚绿你不会去日本大学里钓个靠谱日男？更何况到日本不婚绿可以凭自己打工就留的下来。

• Author: Global-Youth5461
• Created: 2025-01-13 04:32:31 UTC
• Score: 8
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确实，白男家暴可不是一般的🇨🇳人能忍的

• Author: Impressive-Bus5940
• Created: 2025-01-13 02:55:05 UTC
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lmao日本二次元文化割裂成边缘人可还行，日本二次元阿宅才是边缘人

• Author: zuobi_slayer
• Created: 2025-01-13 03:00:26 UTC
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是门虫吗

• Author: fudolana
• Created: 2025-01-13 14:06:14 UTC
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还真的是h，不过不是敏感地段

• Author: webleak007
• Created: 2025-01-13 03:36:45 UTC
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你要做什么确定了吗 你能拿多少 生活费你能拿出多少 不行就薅贷款羊毛

• Author: WindloveBamboo
• Created: 2025-01-13 03:46:06 UTC
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说得轻松，薅完了老共能饶得了你？

• Author: webleak007
• Created: 2025-01-13 03:46:48 UTC
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那种小型的 又不是银行的

• Author: WindloveBamboo
• Created: 2025-01-13 12:07:30 UTC
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话说真撸银行的会怎样？

• Author: webleak007
• Created: 2025-01-13 13:33:55 UTC
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银行的顶多是呆帐 最好别 如果父母在国内 就别搞了

• Author: Positive_Whole8011
• Created: 2025-01-13 14:09:08 UTC
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不会怎么样，你名下没有财产银行也抓瞎。

• Author: jameslin2277
• Created: 2025-01-13 04:08:44 UTC
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百度，美团，支付宝，微博，微信全撸一遍吗

• Author: webleak007
• Created: 2025-01-13 08:34:58 UTC
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不用这么知名的 小点的 这都是大厂的了

• Author: clistral-
• Created: 2025-01-13 04:04:58 UTC
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过年酒桌上的话基本都是吹牛逼的大话，所以你也不用着纠结担心了。能让你婚绿无非是要么那边有亲戚，想和你结婚。但德国骨科在美国那也是不允许的。而且人家凭啥要和你结婚啊。要么给你找对象，但你英语不会，家里没钱，还疑似是福贱这种敏感地区，人家签证都难以给你。而且题主这么中二还喜欢二刺猿，你也不用选了，就去日本吧。

• Author: fudolana
• Created: 2025-01-13 13:59:49 UTC
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有道理的

• Author: fudolana
• Created: 2025-01-13 14:01:56 UTC
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明白了，谢谢

• Author: cutiedancingparrot
• Created: 2025-01-13 05:07:48 UTC
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婚绿市场涨价了好像，之前是5万美元，据说现在开出10万了？品品这个价吧，费对方多大风险担保你？你能给对方多大benefit？

• Author: Key_War6544
• Created: 2025-01-13 05:12:28 UTC
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只說說讓妳婚綠但要背債打工又沒講對象是誰？你確定不是人口販子抓妳去當女僕嗎…

• Author: fudolana
• Created: 2025-01-13 14:01:41 UTC
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仔细想一想确实这个理

• Author: DucklingQwQ
• Created: 2025-01-13 06:19:08 UTC
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安排式的婚綠準沒好事，和賣身沒什麼區別😑再說老中過年聚會，吹水吹脹天的就更不可靠了，老老實實潤日吧

• Author: Kath_latt
• Created: 2025-01-13 07:55:20 UTC
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婚绿不现实，感觉直接失去人身自由，还有太多风险，家暴 人口贩卖都有可能…或许可以问问自己真正喜欢的是什么？当然要达成目的，但也不能太不考虑手段而让自己痛苦

• Author: Positive_Whole8011
• Created: 2025-01-13 07:55:23 UTC
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走线都比婚绿靠谱

• Author: iwheeh
• Created: 2025-01-13 09:08:58 UTC
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婚绿疑似有点昏了头拎不清，人本身是生活中各类选项中最不可预测，最大的风险因素。把命运寄托在莫名其妙冒出来的陌生人身上，还不如嗯摇奶茶攒钱走线

• Author: Hollande_Uranus
• Created: 2025-01-13 09:50:08 UTC
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假结婚还行，真结婚确实得需要考虑一下

• Author: Undocumented_1649
• Created: 2025-01-13 15:42:13 UTC
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直接美国庇护 我们闽侯的经典选择

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• Author: vega-sicilia
• Created: 2025-01-14 14:12:52 UTC
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去日本 你应该能留的

• Author: Sweaty-Rice3131
• Created: 2025-01-15 15:55:03 UTC
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EB5 all in 体面又迅速地让你成为美国人

• Author: chatxjp4
• Created: 2025-01-17 20:13:49 UTC
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真婚绿，女方还要给钱的？？