我是男同（你可以歧视我，也可以觉得恶心，但我就是LGBT），留学入境美国，通过交友软件在当地认识了一个绿卡华人男。谈了一个星期的恋爱，我们就闪婚了。
婚后我才知道，想要申请绿卡，配偶得是公民才不用等排期，然后我就帮我丈夫交了入籍申请费，现在已经过了半年，他应该快入籍考试了。
另外，因为我很早之前就对中国体制不满，所以我在前段时间找律师申请了庇护。
现在I-20快到期了，我不想读书了。
我现在很迷茫，原因是： 1. 我认为我丈夫是NPD自恋型人格障碍，他没有正常人类的共情能力，经常会打压我和背刺我。 2. 律师收了我九千美元庇护申请费，但是律师办事墨迹和出错，第一次庇护申请被USCIS打回了，拒信里说明了纸质表格不是最新版……律师说这个问题很常见，但我怎么觉得这是低级错误。
这些事情听上去很琐碎，但就是这些琐碎的事情，让我的精神和情绪处于崩溃的边缘——我现在不敢相信任何人。
- Author: Worthy-gaylord69
- Created: 2025-09-22 03:03:41 UTC
- Score: -14
- ID: nfjcw7q
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唉，漏💩怪
- Author: pigeon_reborn
- Created: 2025-09-22 03:34:10 UTC
- Score: 38
- ID: nfjhd8u
- Ups=38 | Downs=0 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nfjhd8u/
为啥就准集美婚绿，gay婚绿就要被嘲讽呢
- Author: Worthy-gaylord69
- Created: 2025-09-22 05:28:00 UTC
- Score: -2
- ID: nfjvj5w
- Ups=-2 | Downs=0 | Controversiality=1 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nfjvj5w/
集美婚驴我也嘲讽啊
- Author: Ok-Computer-1581
- Created: 2025-09-22 10:47:12 UTC
- Score: 7
- ID: nfkschg
- Ups=7 | Downs=0 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nfkschg/
闪婚啊，闪婚还不幸福。哎。婚姻幸福比身份重要。要知道绿卡也不是马上有，起码要等1 2年的
- Author: William_Ce
- Created: 2025-09-22 03:50:20 UTC
- Score: 35
- ID: nfjjl4k
- Ups=35 | Downs=0 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nfjjl4k/
换律师很容易
- Author: Liberalism-win
- Created: 2025-09-22 06:41:48 UTC
- Score: 5
- ID: nfk3ifg
- Ups=5 | Downs=0 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nfk3ifg/
可是换律师，钱也不退啊！我那个律师说不退钱！
- Author: William_Ce
- Created: 2025-09-22 11:31:00 UTC
- Score: 25
- ID: nfkxzb3
- Ups=25 | Downs=0 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nfkxzb3/
跟他说不退就report him to bar
- Author: ScaredMacaroon1753
- Created: 2025-09-23 11:48:41 UTC
- Score: 2
- ID: nfr1rtr
- Ups=2 | Downs=0 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nfr1rtr/
不退就不退啊，案件的接手费能有多少？
- Author: Select_Atmosphere630
- Created: 2025-09-22 04:59:27 UTC
- Score: 10
- ID: nfjsajv
- Ups=10 | Downs=0 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nfjsajv/
重开吧
- Author: Ok-Computer-1581
- Created: 2025-09-22 07:31:18 UTC
- Score: 21
- ID: nfk8icp
- Ups=21 | Downs=0 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nfk8icp/
主要你老公这样不太好。为什么闪婚了呢？为了身份闪婚我觉得还是不要。婚姻幸福比身份更重要
- Author: Liberalism-win
- Created: 2025-09-29 10:51:22 UTC
- Score: 1
- ID: ngt1plt
- Ups=1 | Downs=0 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/ngt1plt/
相处久了之后，我发现他人真的很烂，我也是后来才知道婚姻幸福比身份更重要。
- Author: [deleted]
- Created: 2025-09-22 12:56:25 UTC
- Score: 4
- ID: nflayo4
- Ups=4 | Downs=0 | FlairColor=dark | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nflayo4/
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- Author: Ok-Computer-1581
- Created: 2025-09-22 14:19:40 UTC
- Score: 15
- ID: nflq8xh
- Ups=15 | Downs=0 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nflq8xh/
你没看到他老公什么德行的。这种还是不要了
- Author: Hollande_Uranus
- Created: 2025-09-22 19:13:38 UTC
- Score: 2
- ID: nfnetl2
- Ups=2 | Downs=0 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nfnetl2/
五十步笑百步，当你老婆也是一件挺倒霉的事
- Author: Several-Path-784
- Created: 2025-09-22 20:19:19 UTC
- Score: 3
- ID: nfnqvs0
- Ups=3 | Downs=0 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nfnqvs0/
他老公知道他要什么，他也知道他老公要什么，一定程度上的各取所需吧
- Author: Ok-Computer-1581
- Created: 2025-09-22 20:29:07 UTC
- Score: 1
- ID: nfnspzu
- Ups=1 | Downs=0 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nfnspzu/
你怎么看出来的？
- Author: Anarco-Statist
- Created: 2025-09-22 13:06:58 UTC
- Score: 5
- ID: nflcre0
- Ups=5 | Downs=0 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nflcre0/
想想世界上还有很多处境比你差得多的人
- Author: panpiren
- Created: 2025-09-22 14:57:17 UTC
- Score: 14
- ID: nflxwgb
- Ups=14 | Downs=0 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nflxwgb/
律师说的没错，没用最新版的表格确实是常见问题，但你的想法也没错，移民律师的平均水平就是这么低
- Author: rotxtoxcore
- Created: 2025-09-22 18:01:31 UTC
- Score: 2
- ID: nfn0mu3
- Ups=2 | Downs=0 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nfn0mu3/
一星期閃婚，準備的資料夠嗎
- Author: Liberalism-win
- Created: 2025-09-22 18:03:20 UTC
- Score: 1
- ID: nfn10ms
- Ups=1 | Downs=0 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nfn10ms/
结婚已经半年了，我目前还没开始申请婚姻绿卡，所以现在还没有准备资料。
- Author: rotxtoxcore
- Created: 2025-09-23 12:07:29 UTC
- Score: 1
- ID: nfr4o19
- Ups=1 | Downs=0 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nfr4o19/
要等到你丈夫入籍後再提交申請婚驢嗎？
- Author: Liberalism-win
- Created: 2025-09-24 08:11:22 UTC
- Score: 1
- ID: nfwvtqb
- Ups=1 | Downs=0 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nfwvtqb/
目前是这样计划的，等他先入籍
- Author: sewerboat
- Created: 2025-09-23 01:40:07 UTC
- Score: 1
- ID: nfp68b9
- Ups=1 | Downs=0 | Controversiality=1 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nfp68b9/
没上庭花9千就让人帮你填表？
庇护没上庭有找律师的必要吗？找个翻译我还能理解。
- Author: AutoModerator
- Created: 2025-09-23 01:40:07 UTC
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- Author: ScaredMacaroon1753
- Created: 2025-09-23 11:49:24 UTC
- Score: 2
- ID: nfr1vo2
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那就离婚。
- Author: Embarrassed-Bet421
- Created: 2025-09-23 15:48:10 UTC
- Score: 7
- ID: nfsans0
- Ups=7 | Downs=0 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nfsans0/
不管什么性取向，一旦涉及到钱和婚姻，都会有很多麻烦...
- Author: Apide
- Created: 2025-09-23 18:53:26 UTC
- Score: 7
- ID: nftdth4
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屁眼怪闹麻了
- Author: Active-Arm-4634
- Created: 2025-09-24 02:02:52 UTC
- Score: 3
- ID: nfvmat9
- Ups=3 | Downs=0 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nfvmat9/
加油，争取申请庇护，希望你幸福
- Author: AutoModerator
- Created: 2025-09-24 02:02:52 UTC
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- Author: Right_Security_4364
- Created: 2025-09-24 05:23:08 UTC
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- Ups=1 | Downs=0 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nfwecgr/
庇护是需要受到真实的迫害了才行？
- Author: AutoModerator
- Created: 2025-09-24 05:23:08 UTC
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- Author: Scared_Opinion_8847
- Created: 2025-09-26 21:31:52 UTC
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- ID: ngdmozw
- Ups=1 | Downs=0 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/ngdmozw/
不是听说现在婚绿审批很快吗？还是你老公不愿意配合你
- Author: Liberalism-win
- Created: 2025-09-26 23:11:31 UTC
- Score: 1
- ID: nge3wf4
- Ups=1 | Downs=0 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nge3wf4/
他只是有绿卡，所以我没办法直接申请婚绿。我需要等他变成公民后才能申请婚绿。我们结婚后，他才开始申请公民考试，入籍考试要排队的。
- Author: nnuuoo
- Created: 2025-09-27 13:54:32 UTC
- Score: 1
- ID: nghao75
- Ups=1 | Downs=0 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nghao75/
你来这种陋室顺直这么多的平台问？
- Author: UK_98
- Created: 2025-09-29 10:00:03 UTC
- Score: 2
- ID: ngsw4ij
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一个星期闪婚只能说为自己的眼光买单吧，bad investment.
- Author: Liberalism-win
- Created: 2025-09-29 10:47:36 UTC
- Score: 1
- ID: ngt19lh
- Ups=1 | Downs=0 | Submitter=true | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/ngt19lh/
你说的对，婚姻不幸福不如没有。
- Author: zhangmanliya
- Created: 2025-10-01 16:53:46 UTC
- Score: 1
- ID: nh7qgcn
- Ups=1 | Downs=0 | Permalink=/r/iwanttorun/comments/1nnb8sm/我和绿卡结婚后又申请了庇护/nh7qgcn/
为自己的错误买单吧
- Author: Prior-Maintenance651
- Created: 2025-10-18 22:42:08 UTC
- Score: 1
- ID: nk7s5s4
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唉 用的什么软件啊。外州好难找。