楼主的男朋友是德国人，感情稳定，我们互没有结婚打算，但如果我逼迫他结婚他应该会和我结婚的。 但现在的问题是，我目前失业状态，手上存款几乎是没有（家里房车放我名下但不会给我钱），男朋友的话不喜欢工作，靠吃公司分红生活（他和朋友一起在德国开了一家教育机构），除非需要来国内看我不然不去工作，反正现在就是处于两个人都没什么钱的状态。 请问有什么办法不结婚但可以自由往返德国和中国的办法吗？或者这种情况申请探亲签证能拿的到吗？他父母可以做我的担保人，但我自己无业没交过多久社保（刚毕业），很担心签不下来。

  • Author: wormpudding1
  • Created: 2025-12-21 08:18:11 UTC
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顺便说一下楼主本子上有十年美签和英签，但近两年有瑞典申根签证拒绝的记录

  • Author: Organicolette
  • Created: 2025-12-21 11:11:51 UTC
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為甚麼拒了

  • Author: wormpudding1
  • Created: 2025-12-21 14:09:28 UTC
  • Score: 1
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约束力不够，无业+无存款

  • Author: Remarkable_Phone_924
  • Created: 2025-12-21 08:22:33 UTC
  • Score: 27
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是单纯还是蠢？

  • Author: iiiiiiiiib
  • Created: 2025-12-21 09:54:09 UTC
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很显然

  • Author: Otherwise-Climate888
  • Created: 2025-12-21 19:37:24 UTC
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都是

  • Author: Mother-Interest2982
  • Created: 2025-12-21 08:39:55 UTC
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建议去www.make-it-in-germany.com/en/了解一下申请家团的具体要求。十分好奇OP在无存款且失业的情况下要如何实现德国中国的往返，以及在德国的开销呢？

  • Author: wormpudding1
  • Created: 2025-12-21 10:49:45 UTC
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我做线上的自由职业每个月开销的钱肯定有，但一次十几万保证金有点难

  • Author: SoftMost101
  • Created: 2025-12-21 12:07:59 UTC
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他不是要申请探亲吗 团聚肯定不行啊

  • Author: Mother-Interest2982
  • Created: 2025-12-21 12:59:33 UTC
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我是看OP需求先是要中德自由往返才建议他去了解家团的规定的。

  • Author: SoftMost101
  • Created: 2025-12-21 13:32:57 UTC
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可能你俩对于自由定义不一样 我感觉他就想要个长期旅游签

  • Author: naluto
  • Created: 2025-12-21 09:09:03 UTC
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问AI啊

  • Author: DaaaK7
  • Created: 2025-12-21 09:10:02 UTC
  • Score: 3
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不结婚应该很难操作，尤其CDU移民政策向afd靠拢，最近移民政策有趋紧的倾向

  • Author: johnyoker2010
  • Created: 2025-12-21 09:13:02 UTC
  • Score: 7
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没有经济基础的，就不要谈别的

  • Author: Otherwise-Climate888
  • Created: 2025-12-21 19:38:17 UTC
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可是人家是德国白人啊，纯种血统的那种😆

  • Author: SoftMost101
  • Created: 2025-12-21 12:09:14 UTC
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申下试试呗 又不贵 这里谁申过啊

  • Author: wormpudding1
  • Created: 2025-12-22 08:44:44 UTC
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唉😔怕又不过，然后留个拒签记录。之前有朋友拿着大学邀请函申请留学签证也被拒签了

  • Author: SoftMost101
  • Created: 2025-12-22 10:06:01 UTC
  • Score: 1
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申根的拒签应该还好

  • Author: GarbageVandalism
  • Created: 2025-12-21 13:02:51 UTC
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你这种情况还是结婚吧… 去丹麦结，简单一点

  • Author: RemoteHoney
  • Created: 2025-12-21 14:35:48 UTC
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一起生個小孩就事實婚了

  • Author: Otherwise-Climate888
  • Created: 2025-12-22 15:21:48 UTC
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就算生10个人家也会拍拍屁股走人

  • Author: Extension-Ad5514
  • Created: 2025-12-21 14:59:34 UTC
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你男朋友都是德国人了你还搁这来问？

  • Author: wormpudding1
  • Created: 2025-12-22 08:47:09 UTC
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德国人走天下无需签证，问他肯定只会给一些官网信息，所以问问sub里面有没有相同情况的。

  • Author: Extension-Ad5514
  • Created: 2025-12-22 11:51:18 UTC
  • Score: 1
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他不会去外管局问？

  • Author: wormpudding1
  • Created: 2025-12-22 12:27:00 UTC
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好的我让他去问问

  • Author: LSD8964
  • Created: 2025-12-21 15:11:59 UTC
  • Score: 3
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又蠢又懒

  • Author: wormpudding1
  • Created: 2025-12-22 08:45:56 UTC
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就是懒呀，问问热心网友成本最低了，蠢没办法，英专都是这个水平。

  • Author: Otherwise-Climate888
  • Created: 2025-12-21 19:37:13 UTC
  • Score: 1
  • ID: nv8xbxw
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免费🥩

  • Author: wormpudding1
  • Created: 2025-12-22 08:43:22 UTC
  • Score: 4
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谢谢，祝好兄弟也能找到彩礼18.8万，爱刷小红书爱追星，出门旅游必出片不出片就分手，爱喝啵啵芋泥布丁奶茶，正在考公职业幼师，工资3000但想换iphone16的神仙女朋友。

  • Author: Otherwise-Climate888
  • Created: 2025-12-22 15:09:02 UTC
  • Score: 1
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不客气，我大学毕业就结婚了不用彩礼不喜欢小红薯也不追新也不喝奶茶

  • Author: chenhuahua1997
  • Created: 2025-12-22 09:12:58 UTC
  • Score: 2
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德男跑路的太多了， 我身边姐妹德硕毕业了拿的找工作签证，德男说找不到工作就娶她。结果等她只有两三个月签证到期的时候，分手了跑了。

我现在室友也是，和德男结婚了。9个月就离婚了。

  • Author: wormpudding1
  • Created: 2025-12-22 09:52:22 UTC
  • Score: 1
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谢谢，不过我和男朋友没有结婚的打算～婚绿在德国很难，我没考虑过

  • Author: Otherwise-Climate888
  • Created: 2025-12-22 15:42:52 UTC
  • Score: 1
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欧美人都这样，以前宿舍里的白男身边的亚女隔三差五就换了，白男之间还会互换女人。这些亚女和白人在一起时会觉得自己很屌的样子，吃饭会买单还经常送礼

  • Author: Global_Order2750
  • Created: 2025-12-23 16:37:57 UTC
  • Score: 2
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即使不结婚，也该有个长期打算吧？最自由的当然是拿身份。但不想婚绿的话就要走实打实的留学就业移民了。可是感觉你也不是那种被喜欢被工作束缚的人。你俩异地生活，想确认民事结合关系也不容易。

  • Author: wormpudding1
  • Created: 2025-12-23 18:57:48 UTC
  • Score: 1
  • ID: nvl9ffs
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😌虽然很想拿到绿卡但这种事情急不来，目前打算是考个CTCSOL，然后在全世界各地找工作，做一段时间换一个城市（理想状态

  • Author: Bandicoot_West
  • Created: 2026-01-02 00:54:52 UTC
  • Score: 1
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全世界的男人都要做你血包，而你又不想和他结婚，呵呵。你最好去死。