跟妹子交往了

之前的帖子后续，汇报一下结果。

吃饭的时候，我看聊差不多了就和妹子说要不还是正式交往吧。

她说考えとく。当然以op身经百战的经验来看这个就只是不想被认为是很好搞定的女人，强行拖下节奏而已（是的，一个女人对你有没有兴趣其实第一面就知道了。小处男不要幻想什么日久生情）。果然一坐上回去的电车就说那就在一起吧。

不过妹子还是强撑了一下，说第一次见面就在一起显得很奇怪。我说那我们下次见面再正式告白，把这一天做纪念日就好啦。

按说挺顺的，但是其中一点是真绷不住。

妹子说完可以考虑之后，就他妈开始掰手指。 一，要戒烟。二，要认真对待每一个纪念日，不用每月但至少要半年一次。三，一周争取见一回，一个月至少见两回。四，要保持清洁，没有体臭。五，要让她感觉有被好好珍惜。

我嘴上一滑溜，说这些不是基本嘛！

她说不是基本哦，in japan。

我作色，表示日本男人真是太差了。

然后回到家就愁得点了一根烟。

他妈的果然还是炮友轻松。

• Author: Solid_Variation_5466
• Created: 2025-03-11 14:05:53 UTC
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good luke！

• Author: Laffei
• Created: 2025-03-11 14:10:45 UTC
• Score: 18
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说实话op对于彼女さん的各种日女发言有点反感。

比如只允许看自己，不允许看别的女生不然会生气这种。可能在日本这边属于是愛嬌がいい

op真正会中意的还是老娘想你来就来不想你来就走的自由女人。哪怕有时会伤自尊，但是至少是作为同等生态位在互动。

不知道能不能改善对方的想法。

• Author: Tiny-Car-5741
• Created: 2025-03-11 15:03:31 UTC
• Score: 2
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你需要江岛真纪子那种女人

• Author: Big_Yesterday518
• Created: 2025-03-11 17:18:52 UTC
• Score: 19
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建议和国女谈一下可以体验什么叫真正的控制欲

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• Created: 2025-03-11 17:24:42 UTC
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我目前谈过的基本都是国女。

被国女控制只能说你轻易让渡了权利。

其实女人是很敏感的生物，很会捕捉你的边界并且不断试探入侵。你如果在不想被挑衅的部分明确拒绝谈判的话，女人自然就控制不了你（虽然仍然会像哈基米一样犯贱试探）。

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• Created: 2025-03-11 17:42:55 UTC
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我没有说我被控制。我说的是如果有可能，她们希望进行控制的欲望。就像是你说的只让你看她自己的这种“日女”的要求，这对于国女来说简直是最低程度的要求。

• Author: Normal_Response_307
• Created: 2025-03-12 06:58:25 UTC
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你就别建议他了，你说这话就证明你长得不帅，你俩生活在不同的世界，你完全无法理解帅哥的自由感和轻盈感

日女交往外国人，尤其是中国人，那是相当看颜值的（毕竟白男和日男第一等，韩男第二等，后面才轮到中国男）

po应该是长得非常出众，这个条件不是一般人能有的

所以他的烦恼也不适用于一般人

散了吧

• Author: Big_Yesterday518
• Created: 2025-03-12 19:49:23 UTC
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啥逻辑 你觉得你长得帅，女的会不想看你手机吗，会不在意你在外面玩吗？ 越帅女的越担心你在外面玩，因为你条件好的话别的女的会主动往你身上扑 而且我这的控制欲，指的不是已经进行的控制，而是“想要进行控制”的欲望程度。在这方面，我谈过的国女远超其他族裔。 很难理解吗？

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• Created: 2025-03-12 19:51:30 UTC
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帅 在这的作用，就是男的在意不在意女人的控制欲。条件好的自然不在意，但是这并不影响女的想要进行控制

• Author: Normal_Response_307
• Created: 2025-03-12 22:12:58 UTC
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你先定义一下什么叫控制

如果控制指的是女人为了让男人留在她身边所做出的努力的话，那么男人长得越帅，这种控制越会以讨好和妥协的方式进行

因为外面有一大堆同性在跟她竞争，她必须要做让对方最满意的那个，才能留住这个男人

所以帅哥的自由感也没说错啊

• Author: CW-1216
• Created: 2025-03-12 04:59:02 UTC
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那你找尼瑪的櫻花妹

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• Created: 2025-03-11 14:15:36 UTC
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还是炮友轻松，妹子三天两头生病大姨妈不让H，绷不住啊

• Author: No-Bed5856
• Created: 2025-03-11 14:18:15 UTC
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行啦，有炮友还有女友，都给你炫完了。

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• Created: 2025-03-11 14:23:16 UTC
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又不是同时找，op不管炮友还是女朋友，都只会发展一个人的固定关系。分明绝世好裤裆。

• Author: Hollande_Uranus
• Created: 2025-03-11 18:01:27 UTC
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牛逼

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XXX，downvote點冒煙了

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帅逼死一死

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为什么要偷走我的生活

• Author: hideaway_cs
• Created: 2025-03-11 14:47:13 UTC
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和你们拼了🔪🥹🥹

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炮王，你欠屠

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要全身脱毛吗

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没结婚愿望的话，就当砲友呗

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我不光有结婚愿望，而且必须要造一窝小孩。

所以才愁

• Author: abikokinpei
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唉繁殖瘾，虽然我也要两个就够了

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你是勞贖嗎🐀

• Author: chourihou
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为什么要偷走我的生活😭

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週に一回、もしくは月に二回会うのって少なすぎじゃね。
近くに住んでんなら、週に三、四回は会うのが普通だと思うが。

• Author: Laffei
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週３、４でも行けるかもと言ったけど、高校ならそうかもねって言われた。

やっぱ社会人ペースじゃ週2はもう限界どころかな。

• Author: MaryPaku
• Created: 2025-03-11 16:08:23 UTC
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同居じゃなければ無理やろ

• Author: Fumonnifusu
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愛があればなんとかなるやろ

• Author: Tiny-Car-5741
• Created: 2025-03-11 15:04:22 UTC
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日本妹子一般腿都短吗

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op的妹子是个高妹捏😁😁😁

• Author: Tiny-Car-5741
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很赞啊。日本是不是高妹会被歧视还是这两年好了

• Author: Laffei
• Created: 2025-03-11 15:20:36 UTC
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很遗憾，她正是因为身高被歧视过，甚至自卑。

• Author: Acceptable-Fox-8161
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恁炫就炫吧，能不能发点男性护肤把自己穿啥衣服整利索的教程。炫里带点干货，这种大家都能接受也爱看。

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op其实脸上还有挺多痘痕的，真是全靠死鬼老爹遗传硬帅。

至于衣服，直接就是大衣一套就好了，剩下的全靠身高撑。

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那就发个贴价绍下冬季、秋季的男性套装吧。本sub很多润友被洼地农逼审美熏陶导致成年了衣品还跟初学生一样。稍微说说兴许下次炫贴大伙就更乐意捧场了是不?

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一个思路，爱看动画的话也许可以参考一下男声优的穿搭试试

• Author: kishida230
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请问opさん身長何センチ呢？在日本男生一般理想的身高是多高呢？

• Author: Laffei
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妹子说是175以上会比较好。

op是180+。

但是街上最普遍的还是173左右

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是军大衣吗

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怎么认识的

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怎么搭讪的啊？ 不会日语在日本能搭讪到吗

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你颜值高或者外向就可以。

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哦

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说英文搭讪也可以吗

• Author: fingerpain420
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英文就別想了吧

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去哪里搭讪吗？ 心斋桥那种地方街头搭讪吗

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我没自己主动搭讪过，你问住我了。

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你在日本生活吗？ 生活里认识的吗

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搭讪都是靠数量

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怕被打

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沒完了是吧？

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• Score: 7
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妈的到底多帅？

• Author: Hopeful-Hunt-6092
• Created: 2025-03-11 20:16:42 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mh9jebv
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最后回家就犯戒了

• Author: creating-Deus
• Created: 2025-03-11 20:18:33 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mh9jsnv
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我破防了，我本来也应该有这样的生活！

• Author: mokobareru
• Created: 2025-03-11 22:52:25 UTC
• Score: 4
• ID: mhag0hs
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诶诶看看你的脸！

• Author: Status-Ad9123
• Created: 2025-03-11 23:12:14 UTC
• Score: 9
• ID: mhajxgu
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逼样的帅比 四千家

• Author: Status-Ad9123
• Created: 2025-03-11 23:13:12 UTC
• Score: 3
• ID: mhak43v
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我草泥马 为什么偷走我的人生

• Author: autodanger
• Created: 2025-03-11 23:41:10 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhapi79
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所以她本来就是你的炮友吗

• Author: Laffei
• Created: 2025-03-12 00:42:05 UTC
• Score: 5
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不是，跟炮友谈恋爱的话那我真是疯了

• Author: Trick_Storage
• Created: 2025-03-12 00:37:50 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhb03yq
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请问怎么判断女人对我有没有兴趣啊，见过一次，当面聊天感觉挺好的

• Author: Laffei
• Created: 2025-03-12 00:49:25 UTC
• Score: 9
• ID: mhb28qb
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你得直视她的眼睛。

女生大多社交礼仪做得更好一些，所以你的感觉挺好可能只是她对你比较礼仪得体而已。

长时间近距离对视会让很多交流的技巧失效，不得不说真心话。是一种进攻性非常强却安全的做法。这个情况下对方是喜是嗔，你就基本可以做比较准确的判断了。

• Author: Trick_Storage
• Created: 2025-03-12 00:54:21 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhb34p0
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这个一个月前见过一次，后来我约了两次都说最近太忙（做咨询的三月好像真的挺忙）没有明确说过我们不合适啥的（我们俩都30了感觉没意思会直说？）线上不主动找我聊天，但是我找她聊天态度挺好的，也有互动很好的时候，唉是不是不能说完全没希望？

• Author: Laffei
• Created: 2025-03-12 01:08:17 UTC
• Score: 5
• ID: mhb5mgr
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为什么要自己猜，却不给一个对方回答的机会呢。

忙しいのわかってますよ。重い人だと思われるのも避けたいです。

でもほんとに〇〇さんのことをもっと知りたいですから、暇ができたら、ぜひ会わせてくださいね。

之类的，只要你真诚礼貌疑问，完全可以让对方解答的。

• Author: Trick_Storage
• Created: 2025-03-12 01:31:52 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhb9u7k
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唉我的经验，国女尤其大龄的，很容易爆雷的，不敢问啊，准备再观察一段时间看看

• Author: Laffei
• Created: 2025-03-12 09:01:26 UTC
• Score: 4
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国男最大的问题就是心防太重。你心防重，那对方自然也就不能跟你交代实话了。

其实你真诚与否，对方是能感受到你的气场的。

• Author: Trick_Storage
• Created: 2025-03-12 01:32:26 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhb9xro
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感谢你的回复和解答🙏

• Author: Comfortable_Foot_826
• Created: 2025-03-12 00:39:26 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhb0epr
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😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

• Author: Outside_Fennel4513
• Created: 2025-03-12 00:53:07 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhb2wqu
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在哪里认识的呀？

• Author: abikokinpei
• Created: 2025-03-12 01:59:08 UTC
• Score: 2
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还好我每天游戏嗯打没有这样的烦恼

• Author: Illustrious_Pop8860
• Created: 2025-03-12 02:08:45 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhbgdxq
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日本烟确实牛逼。上次朋友带给我一包，包装上面居然还有一个手指除臭的薄荷纸。

• Author: Active-Shame9618
• Created: 2025-03-12 02:27:05 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhbjk91
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就你在炫！

• Author: Dull_Astronaut8897
• Created: 2025-03-12 02:36:11 UTC
• Score: 3
• ID: mhbl3d9
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确实炮友方便，最重要的是没啥负担

• Author: abikokinpei
• Created: 2025-03-12 03:30:57 UTC
• Score: 13
• ID: mhbtpst
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我服你们这群渴批男，一个交往帖不到半天几十条回复

• Author: yuki_li1
• Created: 2025-03-12 04:38:31 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhc2vkt
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有没有教程😭😭😭

• Author: Decent_Pear7268
• Created: 2025-03-12 04:49:10 UTC
• Score: 3
• ID: mhc466o
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光光戒烟这个，全世界各国都凉了

• Author: [deleted]
• Created: 2025-04-12 04:57:48 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mmopzn1
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[removed]

• Author: EntrepreneurNo8195
• Created: 2025-03-12 06:54:36 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhchhek
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好小子，等我顺着网线来打你

• Author: punpun_onodera_0707
• Created: 2025-03-12 10:07:21 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhczhor
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小红书：362190686

• Author: Sweaty_Newt_9157
• Created: 2025-03-12 09:11:09 UTC
• Score: 0
• ID: mhcu2ev
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群里看完红迪又看到

• Author: Exciting_Bee_9920
• Created: 2025-03-14 07:52:58 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhpomlz
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看看群

• Author: zhinarchist
• Created: 2025-03-12 09:36:58 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhcwhvq
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除了见面可能不可抗力影响，其他的确实比较基本

• Author: n0goodnameleft
• Created: 2025-03-12 09:50:59 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhcxumt
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小楚南羡慕了😭

• Author: Medical_Leadership54
• Created: 2025-03-12 11:40:51 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhda8lr
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op是单眼皮还是双眼皮？因为说要看着对方眼睛说话所以很好奇😯

• Author: Laffei
• Created: 2025-03-12 11:52:58 UTC
• Score: 5
• ID: mhdbu7s
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晶哥放过我

• Author: Terrible-Wave-8064
• Created: 2025-03-12 13:43:58 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhdtdzs
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樱花妹大部分都对身高有要求吗？最低多少 对大多数樱花妹来说

• Author: AutoModerator
• Created: 2025-03-12 13:43:58 UTC
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哈哈，天天舔那些日本女人，为什么不找集美，你崇洋媚外

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• Author: Laffei
• Created: 2025-03-12 13:45:56 UTC
• Score: 2
• ID: mhdtrle
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170以上其实就不减分了。

• Author: Legend6Bron
• Created: 2025-03-12 14:24:20 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhe103q
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樱花妹现在是不是都不太愿意出国生活了？还是因人而异？

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哈哈，天天舔那些日本女人，为什么不找集美，你崇洋媚外

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• Author: Physical-Actuator337
• Created: 2025-03-12 17:43:03 UTC
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支蛆

• Author: keluokedaer
• Created: 2025-03-13 00:00:34 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhha1zj
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欠得慌，有好女人不珍惜

• Author: [deleted]
• Created: 2025-03-13 03:02:05 UTC
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[removed]

• Author: runtoJapan-ModTeam
• Created: 2025-03-14 04:47:16 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhp557e
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本sub基于对等制裁法案，禁止China_irl活跃用户发言。

• Author: Ok_League_6963
• Created: 2025-03-13 07:08:40 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhj08uc
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你小红书上删帖了吗？找不到你小红书的帖子了

• Author: Laffei
• Created: 2025-03-13 07:09:19 UTC
• Score: 2
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集美们太让人头皮发麻了

• Author: OneOpposite3530
• Created: 2025-03-13 13:24:04 UTC
• Score: 1
• ID: mhk7wnl
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人帥真好

• Author: A_fan_of_Bao
• Created: 2025-03-13 13:54:29 UTC
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别炫了别炫了

• Author: Coolkids_notme
• Created: 2025-03-13 14:28:22 UTC
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Downvote 我直接给点冒烟了

• Author: quandants
• Created: 2025-03-14 01:12:53 UTC
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哈哈哈笑死，日本女人果然也是既要又要

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哈哈，天天舔那些日本女人，为什么不找集美，你崇洋媚外

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💪🏻🎉

• Author: syc11
• Created: 2025-03-15 10:50:03 UTC
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三十岁还好找日本妹子吗？

• Author: Appropriate-Panda279
• Created: 2025-04-04 11:45:28 UTC
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烟鬼给爷死一死吧